Amani F

AmaniF

The relationship started innocently enough—like many, it grew from a platonic, working relationship. He was a well-respected, prominent business man with a seemingly perfect life, a wife, children who had grown up to be successful adults, and a rel...

Amber C

AmberC

As a married mother of two kids, I don’t have much time for the bar scene anymore. Hell, I don’t have much time for any scene anymore. So, when a few months ago I was invited out for a cousin’s bachelorette party, I happily accepted. The nig...

Cassandra G

CassandraG

I had dated various men through college, but at the end of the day, they were all the same: serious about school, but not about me. The “relationships” never seemed to last more than a few dates, and most of the time I ended up having to pay, ope...

Emilee A

EmileeA

Sam was my new boss. I was 24; he was 46. We were both married, and I was immediately attracted to him. We began having lunches off campus, then crafting ways to meet for drinks after work, dinners out, even the occasional Saturday when I would tell ...

Francine K

FrancineK

I first met Alfred when I was 38 and he was 63, on an Internet chat site. I really didn't think this was a datable person, but a wonderful friendship developed. We became chat buddies for a while and connected so well on so many levels, we decided to...

Giselle

Giselle

I moved to Chicago when I was 31 to take up a new job. Although I was successful in my career, I quickly met and fell in love with—and then was dropped just as quickly—by a younger pro football player. After that, I decided I was going to live my...

Isabella M

isabella

I was never patriotic, so when Independence Day came, the last thing on my mind was to go out and celebrate. I was bored and I was lonely, and though they weren’t my normal crowd, thesse girls were friends and family members who I grew up with. But...

Julz Afflair

JulzAfflair

I was raised with nice things and nice cars, as my father owned an oil company. When the oil busted in the 1980s, I met my son’s father and in six weeks agreed to marry him. He could afford me. He owned homes and airplanes. Money was no object. I e...

Lena S

lena

I’d always dreamed of the perfect fairytale prince in storybooks—ready with money and status to come save me from my chaotic, average life and treat me like his princess. Add a 26-year age difference and I found the closest thing to it. Not every...

Sophie M

SophieM

It started as a search on Google. I had put the kids to bed and was catching up on reading the news on the Net. I was lonely; my husband was out again, just like every other night. I knew he would be back late. The house was clean, dishes washed, kid...

Vivian

vivian

I am 26 and my husband 45. At first, our friendship existed mostly online. I was actually helping my now husband with his dating profile when it dawned on me that he was exactly what I was looking for in a perfect life partner. So, I asked him out an...

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We’re looking for women who are dating or married to men 20 years or older than them and who want to share their stories with other women in the same situation.

They can be stories about how great it is to be with an older man… they can be stories about the challenges of being with an older man… or they can be those juicy stories about family, sex, or money that we all love to hear about.

Whether they are heartfelt, controversial, funny, thought-provoking or all of the above, we want to hear about it. And if it’s a story we can publish, we will pay you $500 for the story, with an opportunity to write more!

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In the form below, you are required to enter a name. If you don’t want to enter your real name, enter an alias or a pen name. You are also required to enter your story. You don’t have to be an expert writer, but we do have some ground rules:

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Once you’ve written your story, you have a choice:

  1. You can click the submit button and send it to us completely anonymously, or
  2. You can enter your email address and/or phone number, then click the submit button.

If you’re just looking to tell one story to “get it off your chest” or just for the thrill of writing it, then choosing option A is for you. However, if we do publish your story, we won’t be able to pay you the $500 for it.

With option B, if we publish your story, adding your contact info will allow us to arrange the $500 compensation and to potentially work out an arrangement for you to write more content. We will still publish your story under your pen name or anonymously, but this option allows us to communicate with you so you can tell us where to send your payment. And remember, we keep all communications 100% confidential.

Ultimately, the choice is up to you. If you’d like, you can e-mail us at bianca@earnthenecklace.com and we’ll gladly answer any of your questions. You can also submit your story through that e-mail if you’d like.

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