6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 7

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 7

Au Natural.

By their very nature, sugar daddy relationships are mutually beneficial.  And he should have no problem giving you what you want. That also means he has no problem giving you what he wants. Unfortunately, there are times when age will prevail, and nature gets in the way—he just can’t perform, no matter how hard he tries.

Tell him that there are just certain times when you want to know that you excite him.  Tell him that you don’t want him to have to rely on the little blue pill to get the night rolling. You want him to find you sensual and sexy, that you want to be desired naturally, not with the help of a drug.

After all, your self-esteem can only take so much. What does it say when he has to take a pill to get turned on? If he can’t get there naturally, you don’t want to have to rely on a pharmaceutical company, at least not all the time, and especially not on the night that you just want some time off. No, tonight you just want to cuddle instead.

In any type of relationship, there are expectations. When it comes to sex, there are times when it’s all about quality, not quantity. Sometimes, it has to happen at our own pace, and in our own time. Sadly, this can mean the odd restless, sleepless nights for our sugar daddies. Often times, though, sugar babies are willing to give their sugar daddies what they want. It’s a small price to pay for the freedom, and because older men have a wealth of experience to draw on, the experience in the bedroom can be just as satisfying for us as it is for them.

VN:F [1.9.22_1171]
Rating: 10.0/10 (1 vote cast)
VN:F [1.9.22_1171]
Rating: –1 (from 1 vote)
6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 7, 10.0 out of 10 based on 1 rating

The Whole Story

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 1

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 1When you tell people you’re in a relationship with a much older man, the first thing everyone wants to hear is the lowdown on the sex. Is it romantic, mind blowing, good, bad, or non-existent? Is it different being with an older man? Have you learned any new amazing pretzel-bending positions? Does he like to talk dirty?
You can hear your friends asking, “How could you give up dating hot, younger, wrinkle-free men that you actually have something in common with for a much older, wealthy, salt-and-pepper-haired man who prefers Miles Davis to Coldplay?”
Why do we do it?…

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 2

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 2Make him wait.
Have you met other sugar babies since being with your older man? Get on the phone with them and plan a fun-filled weekend getaway together. You know you can, because it’s not as if you’ll be paying for it. Or, if you’re not really feeling a weekend away with the girls, spend a quiet weekend on your own instead. Spending a little time apart from your sugar daddy will make your next meeting just a little more exciting, maybe a little too exciting for him.
You’re hot, fun, and intriguing—don’t let him forget it!…

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 3

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 3It is what it is.
Your sugar daddy wouldn’t be in a relationship with you if he couldn’t handle the idea of having you as his gorgeous, much younger girlfriend. He also knows that all relationships, no matter how delicate the kid gloves are, have their ups and downs.
Few things can get in the way of sex like a good, old-fashioned fight. Keep your arguments light; don’t make them too emotional. It could be seen as a sign of weakness, and you don’t want him having to come to your aid.…

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 4

155968252Timely and unquestionable female issues.
Most sugar daddies have already suffered through a long-term relationship or two, and they don’t want to make waves. He especially won’t want to talk about your female body issues. Unless your sugar daddy is a physician, there are a large number of unquestionable female issues that can save the day.
Your period? No, that won’t work. He knows your cycle. He might be older but he’s also a male. He knows when and for how long the sexual window of opportunity is open, and when it’s going to close.…

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 5

6Ways_Pt5Let it grow, let it grow, let it grow.
Sometimes the anticipation is so great you just want to burst. And that’s exactly what you’re hoping for from him. If you can’t avoid the inevitable, you can at least make the lead-up fun for him and a flash in the pan for you. Sometimes, all that it takes is a lot of easy-to-do foreplay.
Let him know what he’s in for when he gets home. Meet him for lunch wearing a flouncy blouse. Lean in when you talk to him over the table, and give him a flash of cleavage. …

6 Ways to Get What You Want From Your Older Man Without Giving Him What He Wants: Part 6

6Ways_Pt6Sleep with the fishes.
The bookend to delaying physical contact is to “sleep with the fishes.” Start by explaining to him that few things are as romantic as a night home on the couch watching movies.
You may not be a big fan of the Godfather movie trilogy, but chances are that your sugar daddy is old enough for it to be one of his favorites. For some sugar babies, it might be easier to live through the Director’s Cut of the Godfather trilogy than letting him take you to bed. Also try these man-friendly movie series: Star Wars, Indiana Jones, and Dollars.…

What Happened When My Hot Older Boss Caught Me Reading a Naughty Book at Work (Not What I Expected): Part 2

Beware of Sugar Daddies with Big Families (Who Don’t Know How to Mind Their Own Business): Part 1

What Happened When My Hot Older Boss Caught Me Reading a Naughty Book at Work (Not What I Expected): Part 1

This Is What My Future Mother-in-Law Did to Make Me Hate Her

The Sneaky Trick I Used to Make a Rich Older Man Absolutely Infatuated with Me

The Unbelievable Thing My Doctor Said When I Told Him About the “Sex Buddy” I Found For My Sugar Daddy: Part 2